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Are you REALLY Listening?

Posted by Jason On August 17th

So this is part 4 of our series on The Seven Ways to Increase Your Business through Networking and I have to say – this one is quite a challenge for a lot of people!

“To listen well, is as powerful a means of influence as to talk well, and is as essential to all true conversation” – Chinese Proverb

#4 on our list is – Be sure to listen!

Just in case you weren’t paying attention, I said listen 🙂

After attending a LOT of networking events over the years the one thing I noticed when speaking with people, is that they rarely give you a chance to talk. They are too busy selling themselves… “I do this, and we do that, we are the best because blah! blah! blah!”

It is so important during the initial relationship building phase that you don’t be one of those people that only goes on about themselves. My advice to you is to sit back and really take time to LISTEN! When you make it all about them you are showing true interest in them personally and what you are saying is that what they do matters to you. Now THAT is powerful!

When they walk away from this meeting they will think WOW! I just made a great connection! And the reason why they will feel this way is because you listened…. most people don’t.

So remember, one of the easiest ways to really make a powerful connection while networking is to listen to what others have to say, pay attention to what they offer and you never know they might actually listen to who you are, what you do and how you can really help them!

Happy Networking!

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